Little Things


She started reading a book that a friend let her  borrow “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” it is a very interesting book to say the least. It is quite amazing how we let the small things in life bring us down from where we are in our life. Everyone is so caught up in worrying about how other’s look at them. We tend to forget about how our actions affect other’s around us. It does not matter what other people think about you because you are the only one that you have to answer to in your life. The things that you do in your life reflect how you will be later on in life.

Life is what you make it and not worrying about the small things in life is something that you have to step back and think about how you would react to those things that bother you so much. You know when you are on a roll with something and someone steps in to help you with what you are doing you have to step back and re-evaluate what you were doing and focus on the steps that you should have taken before they stepped in to help.

The littlest things can trigger something inside and cause you to react in a different way than you should have reacted. Stepping back for just a second can change the way that you look at the situation and change your reaction. When she started writing years ago her children would always interrupt her to ask silly questions about a variety of things and she would react like it was an interruption of her quite time to write. When children are little they do not understand the concepts of quite time or that mommy is trying to work on something.

Finding the center of your aggravation and irritations can help in finding the right place to be so that the little things in life do not bother you as much. Sometimes we do not think about the things that we say or do because when you are just that type of person that is honest about everything that you do in life you tend to say things that you later probably should not have said in the first place. Many people have a hard time hearing the truth about anything that they do in life. Mostly, because they believe that they cannot take criticism from other’s. Many people think that they are helping and do not see the harm in what they are doing. However, by not allowing them to do  these things by themselves makes them think that they can never do it on their own.

Sometimes people do not think about the feelings of other’s and it is hard to think about how other’s are feeling because that is not how the world works. Sometimes people think that other’s do things just to make other’s feel small and not worth anything. Which in turn makes people feel like they are doing well at their job, at home, or anything in between. Sometimes people feel that they cannot do anything right and that they are not worth having around because other’s cannot get past the pet peeves that they have developed over time.

She is very honest with her children and tells them how it is in the real world. People are not going to take their feelings into consideration when you have a job to do. The world is a cruel and unusual place to be because no one cares about the feelings of other’s and they will not take your feelings into consideration. You have to be careful in the things that you say to people because it may come back to bite you later on in your life. You have to be careful in this world because people are so sensitive to anything you say to them. They have no backbone and cannot take criticism of any kind. They do not want to hear the things that they are doing wrong. They just want to hear about the things that they are doing right.

 

Life in the Fast Lane


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Hello reader’s, she knows that it has been quite some time since posting anything on this blog. It is funny how life gets in the way of the things that you love to do. However, life is something that you have to take with a grain of salt. Throughout, our life things happen to where you cannot get things that you would like to do done. When you finally get to that point in your life where you have the things that you want out of life you can only try and reach for better things that will make your life better. It is hard to sit down and make time for writing when you have a busy schedule. Although, it is mostly procrastination that keeps you from doing the things that you should be doing to keep your audience interested in what you are writing about and keeping them coming back to read something else that you have written.

To be the writer you have to actually set time aside from your life to write about things that interest you and your reader’s. That is the main thing right there setting aside time from work, homeschooling, and life to write about what is on your mind. A few years ago she did not have any problems sitting down at her desk and writing about what was on her mind. However, the more recent years have become more wrapped up in work, and homeschooling her children to get them ready for the outside world. Keeping in mind that her main reason for writing was to give advice of things that have worked for her that could possibly help other’s in the world.

She has always loved to write and spent long hours working on a book that she has not even looked at since things in her life turned around for the better. She needs to realize that she can never publish a book without putting in the effort to getting it finsished and edited. Putting aside all the times that she laid around the house on her day’s off from work to enjoy the day. She could spend that time to write about things that maybe could help other’s in the world. You know when you work six days straight and homeschool in the afternoon grading papers, and making sure that they have done the required work that they were supposed to do you find that most of your time is spent doing the things that you have to do.  Sometimes that does not leave time for anything else like the things that you would love to be doing.

She spends most of her time working and spending quality time with her family. Taking on of her day’s off to just be lazy and not think about the things that she needs to be doing. It is making up excuses why she is not writing the things that she should because she just does not want to take the time to sit down at her desk and spend the time writing. So now, she needs to make the decision on whether or not she wants to keep the work going and spend the time each day to make sure that she sits down and writes. All it takes is actually sitting down at the computer and spending a little time writing about what has happened in her life to get her where she is today.

It is time to make that change in her life to keep her interested in the things that she loves to do and spend that little extra time in compiling some articles to publish throughout the week. She is excited about keeping her reader’s interested in continuing to come to her blog to read what she writes about and she will set time out of her day to accomplish what she started so many years ago.

Blogging


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Back in 2011, she started this blog just to write about things that were on her mind, and publish things from college. Since that time her blog has been viewed over 30,000 times and has had the pleasure of meeting some great people that share the same interests as her. She has been absent for some time because of multiple things that has happened in her life to prevent her from keeping up to date with her readers. However, things are looking up and she is getting back on track with some things that she liked to do when she started this blog.

It is quite amazing how far something your write gets around the world. Looking at the multiple countries that have viewed her writing is something that she can never have taken away from her. It is something that she never thought would happen and she did not think that people would read the things that she writes about within the walls of the internet. The feeling that you have when things go your way, and the way that you want them to is something that you can look back on throughout the years.

Blogging has turned out to be a challenge and it is something that she has enjoyed since starting this blog. It is something that soothes her and when she starts writing the words just flow through her mind onto the empty white spaces here. She has always enjoyed writing and hopes to finish her book one day. These things take time to mature throughout the editing, rewriting, and everything else that comes with writing a book. One day she will achieve this and publish for the world to see.

Inspiration from the heart for everyone to read. Hopefully, she is helping others with some of the same types of frustration, and insecurity that she has with her writing. All she wants to do is voice her thoughts about things throughout her life that maybe one day will help other in achieving the goals that they set out for themselves. Life is what you make it and you can spend your time sitting around doing nothing or you can make the most of what your life has to offer. Writing, blogging, and voicing your opinions about things may help other people in the world.

Achievment’s


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As this year proceeds she is  reminded of the achievements that she has made throughout this year have made her realize that things happen for a reason. She may not understand at the moment why things are not going my way. However, you have to take things in with a grain of salt. Sometimes we always do not understand why things happen and we think that the world is coming down all at once. Sometimes it does come down all at once and there is nothing that you can do but work through the ups and downs of your life.

Eventually, things come together when they should and then there is nothing left but for you to live your life the way that you want. Sometimes, we reflect on the things that we have been through that have brought us to this point in our life. These things that happen make you realize that life is worth the wait. Even though things may look dull from time to time you have to work through the hardest parts of your life to make it to where you want to be.

That means that you have to work twice as hard to get the things that you want out of your life. Even if that means that you do not get to see your family quite as much as you would like. In the end everything that you do in your life you can always count on it being worth the wait. You are an influence to your children and to the people that you are around when you show them that you are willing to go the extra mile to get the things that you want out of life.

You cannot take things for granted, and you have to appreciate the things that you have in order to make it in the world. If you do not appreciate the things that you have and are not grateful for the things that you work so hard for then you will never have anything in your life that is worth anything. She has worked hard for everything that she has in her life and she has accomplished so much throughout her life in the past ten years.

Some of the accomplishments in her life is that she graduated college with a B average in all her degree’s. She has finally got the job that she went to college for and put her skills to the test. Throughout, the process there are pitfalls, and obstacles that she will face throughout the process. However, in the end it is all worth the time and effort that she is putting in to the job at hand. She has homeschooled her children for the last five years, and one of the children will be graduating next year.

Life sends so many things your way and you have to work through them in order to get the desired result. You cannot listen to other people or let them bring you down because you are working towards the things that you want out of your life. When you are happy with the things that are going on in your life then all you need to worry about is the things that will make you happy and successful in the world. Instead of being a follower  be the leader and show people that you have what it takes to achieve everything that you want out of life.

People seem to think  that you need friends to survive in the world. Well she is one of the exceptions because she does not need friends to make her world go round. She has her family and that is all that she needs to make her world go round and round. With three teenager’s in the house there is no  room for anything else but family. She does not need to go out and party with friends just so they can stab her in the back and make fun of her. She does not need to go spend time at other people’s house or have parties of her own.

Just when you think that things cannot get any better something always happens to make that change your mind. Living for the moment is not something that you do when you have plans for the future. Making sure that you can survive anything that comes your way is the most important thing. Being self-sufficient is something that everyone should work on throughout their life because it may come in handy one day.

April Challenge accepted


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I love these types of challenges and looking forward to the upcoming month of April. These are things that keep you motivated to write and keep your reader’s interested in the things that you write about and keep them coming back for more. Cannot wait until the event starts. Better get started now so they can self publish while I am working.

A New Year and A New Beginning


As the New Year comes in there have been some changes in my life that is going to be better for my family. With that being said, I have come to realize that with more responsibility you do not have enough time in the day to write as much as you would like to. The long days of working a full-time job, and homeschooling the children makes harder to write and keep up on things that you want to do.

The future holds some great challenges that will takes every ounce of energy that  I have to make it the best year.  A new promotion at work.  This is something that I have waited for the past few years. I am proud of the accomplishments that I have done the past few years. However, this is the best one of all accomplishments because I am a unit manager.  I have made it to the corporate world. 

Through everything you go through in life something  always makes it better.  If you believe in everything that you do good things will happen and you will achieve your goals that you put in place.  Life is unpredictable and you have to go through  the obstacles that come your way but you will come out stronger and ready for anything else that comes your way. 

Life is about making sacrifices and working towards something better on your life.  Not only for yourself but for your family.  You cannot worry about other people because you have your own family to worry about, and making sure that they have everything they need is your first priority.

In the end everything will turn out for the better.  You will have a great year,  and make goals to achieve in the upcoming year. Of course, there will be new challenges,  and obstacles to overcome in the New Year but you will manage to break through those challenges, and obstacles to reach the outcome that you desire.

HERE’S TO HOPING THAT THE NEW YEAR IS EVERYTHING THAT YOU HOPE IT WILL BE.

The Morning Bliss


The Quiet Time

When you wake up in the morning, you start your day with coffee, and proceed to make breakfast for the family. The minute the coffee is done you sit in the Florida room to listen to the beautiful sounds of the variety of birds lurking throughout your yard. Do you wake up the children or just enjoy the peace and quiet for just a little while before you wake them up to start their day. The quiet time that you have is in the early morning, and in the late evening when the children are sleeping. In the early morning you can see the beautiful array of morning dew all around your yard that drops from the leaves of your plants in the garden. The elephant ears are growing and just an all-out beautiful scene.

Time to Start the Day

Well the quiet time is over because you finally have to wake the children up and get breakfast. Even though it is summer the children still have to do some type of studying because they lose too much when they are off the whole summer. Some people think that is wrong and that they should have the summer off to do whatever they want. However, when you homeschool there are many things that you can do with your children that allows them to learn. You do not have to sit still all the time during the summer because of the numerous places that you could take them for an outing.

Calming Serenity

It does not matter what part of the day you are in because the calming serenity of your slumber is what makes any part of your day the best. No one telling you some sob story about how their life is going downhill, they cannot make ends meet, and yet they still manage to buy the name brand things. Sometimes a little quiet time away from the world is healthy for your brain because of the things that you hear all day long. You eventually know more about the people around you than you should.  After a long day at work you return to your lovely home to enjoy the family time, and the serenity of the place that no one can invade.

Contemplation

When you sit around contemplating about your day, the things you talk about or the people that you meet throughout your day. Many people spend their day running around, eating out, going out with friends, and other things that make them happy. She spends her days off writing, working in the garden, planting flowers, building anything that she wants, and many other things. She loves to spend her off time writing, reading books, spending time with the family, and many other things that most people would not enjoy. People always want to talk to her about reality shows, sports, and many other things that do not interest her in the least. She would rather spend her time reading books, and widening her knowledge of history, science, literature, and anything else that she puts her mind to. Throughout the world there is a variety of things that you can learn about and many people do not like to learn about things that have happened over the years. They sure do not believe that it could happen again.

Choices

Throughout your life you have to make choices and if you make the wrong choices in your life the consequences of those choices can make or break you. You have to think logically about everything that you do in your life or you will not have anything to show for the hard work that you have put into everything that you have done. She knows that she has made some of the right choices in her life and secludes herself from others because she does not have much in common with people. She thinks logically, and thinks about everything that she does, buys, and thinks about the pros, and cons about what she is doing. She is teaching this type of information to her children because you have to be wise about the things that you do in your life if you want to have anything.