You know people do not realize that within the world you have consequences for everything that you do in life. Some people know that you have these challenges in your life such as peer pressure, trying to fit in with the cool crowd, and having friends. Other people want to go out and party all the time with their friends or try to make new ones. They are not concerned about the future and where they want to be five years from now.
Throughout your life you have to make decisions and sometimes those decisions do not have the right path. The only thing that you have to think about is where you want to be five or ten years down the road. You have to make the right choices for you and your family. The world does not revolve around you and you are responsible for the actions you take in your life. You cannot blame others for the way your life turns out. You have to work hard for the things that you want and you cannot complain when your life does not go in the direction you want it to go. Only you can make changes in your life to make it better.
It does not matter what you have been through it is how you get yourself out of the mess you are in with making changes to your life. Working hard to achieve all that you can and to be the best at everything that you do. You cannot worry about what people think about you or what they say about you especially if you are working towards your goals in life. You control everything in your life and we all make mistakes but if you do not learn from the mistakes that you make then you will find yourself in the same place all over again.